QUOTES

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• "Grief and pain are the price we humans have to pay for the love and total commitment we have for another person. The more we love, the more we are hurt when we lose the object of our love." C.S. Lewis
• "What we have once enjoyed and deeply loved, we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us." Helen Keller
• "Hope lies not in a way out, but in a way through." Robert Frost
• "This winter of your life will pass, as all seasons do. Stay in your season of winterness as long as need be, for everything you feel is appropriate. There is no right way to grieve. There is just your way. It will take as long as it takes." Rusty Berkins
• "I felt it shelter to speak with you." Emily Dickinson
• "One friend, one person who is truly understanding, who takes the trouble to listen to us as we consider a problem, can change our whole outlook on the world." E.H. Mayo
• "Give yourself permission to feel whatever you feel and to express those feelings." Alan Wolfelt
• "What is this thing that men call death, This quiet passing in the night? 'Tis not the end, but genesis, Of better worlds and greater light. O God, touch Thou my aching heart, And calm my troubled, haunting fears. Let hope and faith, transcendent, pure, Give strength and peace beyond my tears. There is no death, but only change, With recompense for victory won; The gift of Him who loved all men, The son of God, the Holy One." Gordon B. Hinckley
• "Give sorrow words, the grief that does not speak, Whispers the overfraught heart, and bids it break." Macbeth
• "If you are going through hell, keep going." Winston Churchill
• "To you wonderful sisters who find yourselves as widows, please know that God loves you. You are the choice among the choice. . . . At some period in God's timetable, you will join your eternal companion and serve together, forever, in the great work in the spirit world." Earl C. Tingey
• "[Job] needed friends who would permit him to be angry, to cry, and to scream, much more than he needed friends who would urge him to be an example of patience and piety to others." Harold Kushner
• Broken hearts still beat
• "One of the youngest in the family, I often found myself facing backward in the back of the station wagon. I never got to see where we were going, but I could always see where we'd been. I never got a really good look at where we were until we drove away. So it goes. When I don't understand the here and now, I remember that someday I will move on and maybe looking out the back window, I'll understand." Jay Richards
• "Grief is the rope burns left behind when what we have held to most dearly is pulled out of reach, beyond our grasp." Stephen Levine
• "My husband died and it was hard. But then he stayed dead. That's the part I'm really having trouble with."